I think this is self-explanatory, friends.
Unedited and unabashed. . .(BTW, the initial entry was posted anonymously – to my Contact page. I just love anger shrouded in mystery!)
I have a story that you may relate to. A few years back I met this guy online, bored at work and sick of dating men who i had nothing in common with I somehow ended up chatting with a guy on Craigslist! That should have been my first red flag, but I on the other hand am a kind and honest person so I thought, Hell! maybe this guy is too!
Anyhow, after meeting at a coffee shop we really seemed to hit it off, one thing led to another and after a few weeks we were spending allot of time together. And then it began….the conversation’s about how he had not had a relationship last more than 6 months in his entire life. How he had been wronged by everyone. How he chased a woman to a foreign land, made a large financial investment and then fled the border….but don’t judge him. His story was that he left a mailing address for the bank and that they just simply never got in touch with him. Phew, lucky him….never had to pay a dime, must have GOOD KARMA!
The sad sad stories continued, his job sucked, his family was awful, all women broke his heart and he just COULDN’T commit. So, you might ask…what in HELL was I doing dating this scum bag? Well, that’s a fine question, i on the other hand had enough emotional baggage at the time that I can honestly say my head was up my ass!
Long story short, I continued to date him for a few more weeks when one weekend he went out of town. This was sorta a red flag because he had NO friends, everyone of my friends thought I was nuts for dating this douche bag and well, when he told me he got a side job 600 miles away for the weekend I should have guessed it paid pretty damn good! Let me cut to the chase, this total self centered, narcissistic, lying little prick went to go get himself a little piece of ass and then came back and told me all about it! WOW….now that is a real loser!
It’s no wonder he would find himself after a long bout of unemployment, talking some us-suspecting employer desperate to make a buck into letting him name himself THE RELATIONSHIP FLUNKIE!
Best of luck Brad!
Wow, (insert name here). . .im not sure what inspired you to write such a hateful message. If I was the person I used to be – I would author a no-holds-barred response.
However, I read something quite profound recently which affected the very core of me. Its a book called The Four Agreements. I highly recommend it.
I take no offense to you in this moment; the purge of negativity I’ve just witnessed is between you and you only. When you speak to me with such emotional poison, you are only hurting yourself.
I often look back on the time we had together and am grateful for it. You are an amazing person who is thoughtful, intelligent, hilarious, beautiful, and resilient. I hope you continue on a great path and find peace and freedom within your heart. You deserve it, and I wish you the best.
I’m truly sorry you’re in the spot you’ve found, as you have written me. I know that it, too, shall pass.
With love and deepest sympathy,
give me a break! I am in a wonderful place in my life and have been for a long time. Pretending to be an expert to the public as if you were reborn is an absolute joke. You were about the most selfish person i have met, if you have transformed then I am very happy for you. Truly. It does not make you an expert even if you are getting paid. I have read your blogs and I find it incredibly decietful to talk as if you understand human emotion with such clarity & wisdom. The fact is, you have treated people like shit, walked all over them, lied to them and then acted as if you had no responsibility for your own actions. THe truth can hurt, but it is still the truth.
I sincerely hope that you are a changed person, for yourself and all who come in contact with you. I wish no ill feelings towards you what so ever, but from an outsiders point of view, from someone who was on the recieveing end of your selffishness I can say this. What you write holds little value or credibility. Start by being honest with your audience, calling yourself a flunkie but failing to say why pretty much discredits you.
What inspired me to write to you was your absolute arrogance in which you write. We have all been selfish, made huge mistakes that have hurt others, of course that includes myself as well but if you gave a shit beyond a pay check than that would be clear in your writing. It is not.
Maybe you will find a self help book on honesty and that will start to come through in your blogs. I mean that without sarcasm.
On a side note, I am happy that you are at leaste beginning to look at yourself in a new light, and I do hope you can walk away with something from my offered piece of humble pie.
Wow. . . again. . . such venom to spit in my direction. It’s a miserable way to start the day, don’t you think?
I appreciate your concern that the truth hurts me. . .in this case it does not.
The truth you write about is your truth, and it is poison unto you.
My truth is found in the words I use.
Because I’m going to publish this exchange for my readers – I’m offering a few final thoughts:
1.) When an individual is in a truly free and happy place – he views the world with love in his eyes. He is not offended, nor negatively affected by the actions of another because he has the ability to see himself in that other. Likewise, he expresses gratitude for his own life by speaking impeccably.
2.) In every event – it is better to ask questions than to make assumptions.
I am not paid for this. I am a guy with a voice and a few self-sought venues in which to promulgate it. What I give a sh*t about is the human condition – the feelings we have, the actions inspired by them, and the honesty with which we convey those feelings to the world. For your role in this, (insert name here) – I thank you. You have felt, acted, and expressed the truth as you know it.
And that’s exactly what I want out of all this. . .
you are rediculous.